Um, so… I was on reality TV this weekend. And our wedding was, too. It was really fun! Here are answers to frequent questions.
Q: WHAT? Which show?
A: The show is “I Found the Gown” on TLC, and we are in the “Bargain Hunting Brides” episode. See it by clicking that link or by scrolling to the bottom of this article for the embedded video.
Q: How did this happen???
A: I randomly bought my wedding dress at the store featured on the show, little knowing that at my dress fitting, the seamstress would bark, “You wanna be on TV, honey?”
When I nodded with joyful surprise, she declared, “Ok, no fitting now. You come back next week. I will tell TLC they have another bride for the show.”
Q: When and how did they film you?
A: I was filmed on two separate days: the dress fitting at the store, and our actual wedding (yes, Colin wore a microphone during our ceremony), for a total of at least three hours of footage. All that was condensed into ten minutes of a 30-minute episode! You have to respect TLC’s editing skills, eh?
Q: What was it like to be filmed for reality TV?
A: I loved it! It was dramatic, fun, and funny, and the production team was extremely nice. (I guess they have to be to get participants to be comfortable and open up on camera.) And… this is one of those things that I’ve always secretly wanted to do, especially since I’m a closet reality TV fan. Of course, not all reality TV experiences are so pleasant, but this is a pretty kind-hearted show.
During the filming session in the store the month before the wedding, I wore a little of my own makeup, but the producers kept dusting me with powder to make my face less shiny! I blabbed for a while on camera about wide-ranging subjects (my ill-fitting brassiere, whether I trusted my seamstress to finish on time, whether I trust ANYBODY ever, etc.). It was suspenseful wondering which of these “drama points” would be chosen for the final show!
Q: Wasn’t it weird to have your WEDDING filmed by a reality TV cameraman?
A: Weddings are such massive events, and I put so much obsessive effort into planning ours that it seemed almost fitting that there was a national TV cameraman there.
Moreover, even though I am considered a “frugal bride” by TLC standards, we did put substantial funds into our wedding, so it was a nice feeling to know that people all over America (and beyond!) would see the results, too! Our wedding guests were GREAT sports about the whole thing.
Q: Did you really say on national TV, “looking amazing is a priority over breathing“?!
A: Sigh… Apparently I did. Oy vey.
That said, I WAS still able to breathe during the wedding, and I declare to all the young, impressionable women watching me on the show, breathing actually IS more important than looking good. Really.
Q: Was it weird to see yourself on TV?
A: It was strangely NOT weird to see myself on that screen. Maybe I’ve watched enough reality TV to just calmly think, “Oh, that’s a person on TV,” rather than, “AHH HOW DID I GET THERE?”
Q: Where can I read more about your engagement and wedding drama?
A: Read our Romantic Engagement Story here, our “Crazy Wedding World” article here, my article “Why I’m Not Changing my Name” here, scandalous post “Two Secrets to Save Money on a Wedding” here, or the articles from our Honeymoon in Belize here.
Do leave comments if you have time, because I love knowing you stopped by.
Q: Are you happy with how the episode turned out?
A: Yes, I surprisingly am happy with our episode!
Giant, shimmering thanks to everyone who helped make this adventure possible, and to all of you who’ve kindly watched our episode and sent such nice messages!
Oh, and, uh… if any producers are reading this… I kind of want to be on TV again.
See the actual episode below, or click this link for a bigger version. Enjoy!