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She’s Here! Our New Baby is Here! Woo Hoo!

Our little cutie says, "Hello, world!"

Our little cutie says, “Hello, everyone!”

Yaaaaayyy!!! Colin and I are so happy to introduce you to our new baby: an 8-pound, 20.5-inch cuddler named… Joya. I have covered her soft cheeks in kisses in the hours since her birth, and plan to kiss her a whole lot more in the years to come.

Colin and I are so happy to welcome Joya into the world!

Colin and I are so happy to welcome Joya into the world!

Joya was born with robust health at 4am after 12 hours of labor — significantly shorter than the 28 hours I labored with Devi. The first 9 hours of my labor with Joya were intensely painful and unmedicated (you should have heard my screams!), but the final 3 hours I opted for a blessed epidural that kissed away any pain, yet allowed me to remain awake and happy for the ultimate 4-minute push it took to catapult our little one into the world. It was such a miraculous moment when Joya was pulled forth and placed on my chest. At first there was no baby to be seen, and then all of a sudden, there she was in all of her bellowing glory!

How did that giant baby fit in my belly???

How did that giant baby fit in my belly???

What gratitude I have for modern medicine, and for the hospital staff that made this birth so successful. Having traveled around the world, I know that it’s a rare privilege to have quality maternal care, and I don’t take it for granted!

The whole process of pregnancy and birth is mind-blowing. If you look at this photo to the right of me just days before going into labor, the first obvious question is: “How does the human body support another person growing INSIDE of it?” I gained 40 pounds during this pregnancy, and that last month was like lugging around multiple bowling balls atop my pelvis.

The second obvious question is: “How the heck have women, since the beginning of history, managed to push babies OUT… and keep them nourished and alive throughout an insane range of conditions?

Last night at 3am, all Joya wanted to do was to party and to guzzle food. Colin and I were utterly exhausted, having hardly slept for the previous nights of labor and newborn world. Despite having done this parenting thing once before, we had forgotten how arduous the first months of baby are before the little one’s stomach is big enough to sleep for more than an hour or three… And this will be an extra level of juggling, as our boisterous toddler, Devi, is along for the ride this time! Thank goodness for my parents’ kind help with Devi as we get settled with Joya.

So, how did we choose the name Joya? The name has layers of meaning, and I’m excited to share them with you. First and foremost, “Joya” is about JOY and happiness! Colin and I are overjoyed that our girl is here. The “J” also honors several people in our family, notably my mother’s maternal grandfather, Jacob. Finally, “Joya” means “Jewel” in Spanish. What meaning does “Jewel” have? Read on…

Baby's first selfie! Hehe.

Baby’s first selfie! Hehe.

In 1946 in Abilene, Texas, a woman named Jewel adopted a 12-day-old baby. This baby was my husband’s father, Estes! Without Jewel, would Estes have gone on to become Colin’s father, and would I have met Colin, fallen in love, and had Devi and Joya? No. With the name “Joya,” we want to honor the way in which Jewel’s generosity changed history for all of us.

See you all soon!

Joya says, “See you all soon!”

Given the power behind her name and the many loving people behind her, what history will Joya go on to shape? We can’t wait to find out! Thank you all so much for your kind wishes.

 

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Anna L

Friday 29th of April 2016

Late congrats Lillie! That's great news :)

Lillie

Sunday 1st of May 2016

Thanks so much, Anna!

Ameen A.

Sunday 27th of March 2016

Congratulations Ms. Marshall! As they say in Arabic, Mabrook!!!

Lillie

Sunday 27th of March 2016

Thanks so much, Ameen!

Heidi Reyes

Tuesday 22nd of March 2016

Congratulations! :D

Lillie

Tuesday 22nd of March 2016

Thanks, Heidi!

Margot W

Tuesday 22nd of March 2016

Awwww! She's so cute! Congratulations on having Joya, Ms. M!

Lillie

Tuesday 22nd of March 2016

Thank you, Margot! Hope to see you around town!

Joya

Saturday 19th of March 2016

I just saw this! Congrats on your beautiful baby girl and you settled on the name Joya! I'm so glad we connected those months ago and talked about the name and it was so great to read about the history of the name. I wish you and your family all the best! I know she'll enjoy her name as much as I do.

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