“Oooh, Miss M.!” squealed my students the day after I got engaged. “Your diamond engagement ring is HUGE!”
Well, folks, it’s time to come clean. I do not have a diamond engagement ring.
What I really have is… a $25 crystal ring. Hah!!!!!
Colin and I bought the fake ring together, laughing uproariously the whole time, from the back of a sketchy store in Boston’s Downtown Crossing. “The funniest part about this,” I squeaked amid gales of guffaws as I handed over my twenty-five bucks, “is that no one is going to call me on it!”
“I mean, what jerk is going to say: “Hey Lillie, congratulations on your engagement, but that’s totally a fake ring”?! Hahah! We are so going to get away with this… and it’s awesome!”
At this point, the shady man who was taking my cash was giggling, too.
Come to think of it, we probably could have bargained the price down, but given that we had just saved several thousands of dollars on an engagement ring, I was content.
So there’s secret one to saving mad loot on a wedding, especially if you’re (like us) going to use a family heirloom ring for the wedding and not continue to wear the engagement ring: Consider a faux diamond!
On our wedding day this July, we will remove the fake engagement rings and don the real deal: in my case, Colin’s grandmother’s lovely heirloom piece.
What’s great about this is that after we switch out the cheapo rings on our wedding day, we will still have the option of going back to the $25 fake for international travel, dirty work days, or moments we’re feeling low-maintenance.
What’s even nicer is that Colin’s proposal was so wonderful and our love is so sparkling that the $25 piece of crystal on my finger feels like a million bucks to me! :)
Still don’t believe me that this money-saving ring trick actually works? I have a new hobby of taking photos of my fake ring next to real diamonds of the same shape. (Fun hobby!) See if you can spot any differences worth thousands of dollars in the next two photos. I know I can’t!
Now let us sashay over to the second secret to save money on a wedding:
Use electronic invitations!
If you’ve read the article about my 10 secrets to being super-productive and organized, you may realize that I adore electronic organization systems and abhor paper. Actually, you could figure that out from seeing the heaps of disorganized, crumpled paper on my desk.
To make the case for electronic wedding invitations even stronger, know this horrific fact: brides often spend THOUSANDS of dollars on paper invitations, once you factor in buying fancy paper, creating and printing the design, postage, and in some lavish cases, hiring a calligrapher. That’s a lot of money for a piece of dead tree that most people spend two seconds looking at, or (like me) promptly lose in the sea of papers on a coffee table.
So how exactly does one do electronic wedding inviations? Enter GloSite, Paperless Post, and Google Forms. Through any of these three channels (along with several other online options), you can do all your wedding invites online in a classy yet paperless way for a FRACTION of the cost of paper. Not only that, but sites like GloSite (which I happily chose based on the recommendation of my cousin) let you electronically sort all your RSVPs and create an accompanying wedding website, all in a highly organized manner. Love it!
So there you have my two (slightly scandalous) secrets to saving money on a wedding. Now if we can only find a way to save on Honeymoon packages, we’ll be all set!
Readers, what other ways do YOU suggest to make Wicked Expensive Wedding World more affordable?
Oh, and if you haven’t yet read our romantic engagement story, click here. It’s the perfect reading for Valentine’s Day, even if you are not currently in a couple. If you asked me on Valentine’s Day two years ago (when I was living in Ghana) whether I thought I’d be getting married in July of 2012, I would have laughed at you so hard I’d have fallen into my delicious fufu.
Oh, and in 2 days I’m flying to China with 42 Boston students. Wish us Bon Voyage!
The author, Lillie Marshall, is 6-foot-tall National Board Certified Teacher of English, fitness fan, and mother of two who has been a public school educator since 2003. She launched Around the World “L” Travel and Life Blog in 2009, and over 3.7 million readers have now visited this site. Lillie also runs TeachingTraveling.com and DrawingsOf.com. Subscribe to her monthly newsletter, and follow @WorldLillie on social media!